Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Personal Narrative Response...

So I read the “Caregiver” and the narrative is about a young girl that has to complete certain tasks for her Grandmother that she can’t do herself.  This story forced me to think about what it will be like when I’m old and can’t physically take care of my body any more.  I’m sure it will be a trial for me.  The hardest thing would be to feel helpless, and not be able to help myself.  Knowing mentally what to do, but not being physically capable would steal all dignity from any human being.  In the story the granddaughter notices how her grandmother finds the greatest pride in being able to do even the smallest of tasks for herself.  She can brush her own teeth, wash her own face, and even comb a good portion of her hair.  However, when it comes time for the granddaughter to help with the harder things, such as changing her grandmother’s underwear, the author places both characters in an uncomfortable setting.  In this moment we realize the Grandmother feels as though she has been stripped of all dignity.  The narrative being very effective pulled me in, allowing me to actually feel the tension and awkwardness of the situation.  It was also successful at drawing in its audience because the events in the story are real-life events.  These things that the writer describes are real-life situations, and knowing that makes it easy to form a mental image.   I feel like this narrative was easy to relate to because someday, many of us will experience the same feelings.

3 comments:

  1. I think that it will be interesting not only to become older, but to see our parents get older. Right now we are used to our parents taking care of our every needs. Once they get older I think it will be difficult to see the dramatic change in their capability to do things. We grew up seeing them young and in our eyes, capable to do anything. I think that when they do get older if they every need help we should be their for them with out a single complaint after they have dedicated their whole lives to helping, and being their for us.

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  2. I have had this situation figured out for a very long time. My plan is if i ever begin to reach a point where i start to loose basic abilities i will sit on my porch all day and yell at kids when they get near my yard (which is crappy any ways because Im old and decrepit.) But in all seriousness this is a very interesting idea to think about. How will we cope with becoming not young. I really like how you talked of "being able to relate one day" brilliant. Its a scary thought but well its going to happen to all of us.

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  3. I would hate to be old. I cant imagine what I will be like when I'm older. If I can't do anything. I wonder how it would effect me. I don't really think about this now. But it has to be miserable it be like being in a hospital like I was when I had my appendix take in out. Just sitting there not being able to do anything for yourself.

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